♥ Optimum Happiness..

taken from : Just English Vol. 5 Issue 5


New studies show that we are at our happiest when we are young. We are also happy when we are older, but interestingly, the period of greatest unhappiness usually occurs while we are in our middle age. These findings surprised the researchers who reached their conclusions only after studying the comparative happiness of more than 2 million people in over 80 different countries.

Apparently, people's sense of well-being follows a U-shaped route throughout their lives. Their sense of well-being peeks at the beginning of their lives and during their twilight years, but dips in middle age. In Britain, for example, men are at their unhappiest when they are 50 and at 40 for women.

What especially amazed the researchers was the fact that the findings cut through such considerations as race, culture and social or economic background. The results suggested the well-being and general happiness are not necesarily dependent on matters usually associated with happiness, for example, by having children, by benefiting from a high income or even by having a stable family background.

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Indeed, whether a person was divorced, married, rich or poor seemed to make no material difference to his or her overall lifetime sense of well-being. As one researcher pointed out, "It happens to men and women, single and married people, rich or poor and those with or without children."

But if people's general happiness is not dependent on factors generally perceived to aid a sense of well-being, then what explains these emotional peaks and trough? One theory is that as we grow older, we learn to adapt to our individual strengths and weaknesses. As children and young adults, we embark upon our lives full of expectations, ambitions and goals.



A lucky few achieve their childhood ambitions but most learn, from bitter experiences, to recognise and if necessary discard any unrealistic expectations. Usually this process of re-evaluation occurs during our middle age, a time when we review and, if appropriate, revise our life goals.

In our old age, we ma unconsciously accept our own limitations, any setbacks or disappointments, and learn to simply enjoy life for what it is.

Another, somewhat simplistic, theory put forward by the researchers is that cheerful, contented people tend to live longer. Does a positive an d optimistic view of the world enhance happiness and even prolong life?

One other explanation is that as people grow older, they witness the death of their peers and as a consequence begin to appreciate life more and count their blessings.

Whatever the cause of the U-shaped curve during our lives, it is clear that something occurs, unconsciously, deep inside us. For the average middle-aged person in the modern world, the dip in mental health and happiness comes on slowly, not suddenly in a single year.

* happy people are beautiful

But encouragingly, people usually emerge from their low period in their early 50s. As the researchers point out, "By the time you are 70, if you are still physically fit, then on average, you are as happy and mentally healthy as a 20-year-old." Clearly we can have something to look forward to.

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soup for the soul

"You may get delayed to reach your targets, but every step you take towards your target is equal to victory."


By Karl Marx

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♥ merenung ke luar jendela..

entah kenapa?
terasa begitu sukar untukku mencari semangat yang hilang itu..
ke manakah ia menghilang pergi?
aku tahu..
aku harus mendapatkannya kembali..
tetapi..
sudahku paksa diriku ini..
untuk mencari dan terus mencari..
sudah ku usahakan agar ia kembali..
hadir dalam diriku ini..
tetapi,
akhirnya, aku harus berpura-pura
seolah-olah aku telah mendapatnya semula...
kenapakah ianya begitu sukar??
aku tidak bisa menoleh lagi..
aku harus terus melangkah dan melangkah..
walaupun jalannya itu kabur dan gelap..
oh semangat yang hilang...
hadirlah kau kembali..
Ya Allah,
kau berikanlah ku kekuatan..
menghadapi hari-hari mendatang..
sesungguhnya aku lemah..
tanpa bimbingan dan petunjuk dariMu..

♥ ...

salam bersua kembali..


sihatkah wahai pembaca2 sekalian?
huhu... snanyer xde modal nk tulis apa...
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hurm..
no idea at all..
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ok, sore jaa
ja nee..

♥ melangsaikan hutang...hehe

salam aleyk~

Once again, I had been tagged by Affanishere,
sudah lama ku peramkan tag ini
akibat kesibukan yang melanda......
Kali ini
inginku langsaikan hutang tag mu..


1. The most recent picture of you. Where was it taken? When was it taken? and who took it? How was your mood?

Bayan Lepas Airport, Penang.
12th of July 2008
cameragirl : Widad [my sister]
mood : special...haha

2. A picture of you with a friend. Who is this friend? How did you meet him/her? How long have you known him/her?

This is Sumaiyyah binti Mohd. Suberi.
We met when we were in primary school, Sekolah Rendah Al-Azhar.
We have known each other for 11 years.
She is my best friend.
Thank you so much for always being there for me, Cumi2...

3. A picture of you with your spouse/partner. How long have you known each other/ been married/ being going out?

*~...............I am SiNGLE..............~*

4. A family picture.

* ups, recently, xde gambar penuh satu family... aci la ek klu gambar mcm ni noh~
total : 7 persons

abah [Nasiruddin Abdullah] + mak [Firdaus Hashim]

me 2nd [Nurul Ihsan] + kakak 1st [Nurul Iman]

5th [Muhammad Nabil] + 3rd [Muhammad Firas] + 4th [Widad]

5. A picture of you making a PEACE sign.

me at the most back...see that peace sign?? huhu (^___^)v

6. A picture of you making a yo dawg sign?

*~............xfaham la.............~*

7. A picture of you in your Halloween costume.


8. A picture of you on holiday. Where was it?

at Pyramid, Egypt with my father

9. A picture of you in your workplace/school.


form 5 at library - Sekolah Menengah Kebangsaan Jitra

10. A picture of you in a weird or random place. Where is this place? Who took this picture?


KFC Jejantas, Sungai Buloh.
taken by my cousin, Fathin Aleeya.

11. A picture of you on stage.

Ladies Week - Kolej Matrikulasi Perlis

12. A picture of you playing SPoRT.

Ladies Week - Kolej Matrikulasi Perlis

13. A picture of you with a celebrity.

This is a Korean celebrity.
She's coming to Egypt to celebrate her birthday with me.
On 29th of November 2007.
ngee~

14. A picture of you drunk.

*~.........I am not a drunker........~*

15. A picture of you looking mad. Why were you mad? Who took the picture?

This picture is just me looking mad.
not mad actually.
I am doing some practise before my turn come.
taken by : Pja [schoolmate]

16. A picture of you looking sad. Why were you sad?

me slicing the cake.
picture a little bit blurry.
this picture was taken during my last night in KMP.
my classmates [H1P3] made a surprise farewell party for me.
thanks to everyone.
really appreciate it.
I love the "romance de armour" song played by guitar which is really touching.
and I cry.=( huhu.

17. A picture of you looking WEiRD. Why were you looking WEiRD?

haha.
what kind of face is this?
weird isn't it?
please say yes!
xlarat dah nak cari gambar.
uwaaa...=((

18. A picture of you wearing something strange.

I'm wearing Superman's costume.
strange right?
haha.

19. A picture of you wearing formal.

reunion at Restoran Desa Permai??
uhh...can't remember the name.
not really sure.

20. A picture of you wearing swimsuit.

*~...........hurmm??...........~*
I think I never had one.
When swimming, I'm just wearing longsleeve shirt and track bottom.
Although if I had one,
I'm not going to put it in my blog.
haha. =p

21. A picture of you wearing PJ's.

you asked for it
you GOT it!
hehe.

22. A picture of you with an animal.

these are cows.
they are animal right?
the different is just they're dead.
hehe.
baba and mama make a korban.

23. A picture of you eating or with food.

please do have some..hehe
at KLiA
waiting for Iman's flight arrival
year 2007

24. A picture of you in black and white.

me in black and white.
just me!
hehe.
KLiA 2007

25. A picture of you with shoes. Where?

*~..........xdela..........~*
if I had one sooner or later,
I will put it here.
ok?

26. A picture of you with your eyes wide open.

in the car
with my mom
my eyes are big enough ha??
[ada macam pontianak harum sundal malam x?]
=D

~ TAMMAT~
[ejaan seperti cerita P.Ramlee, jangan tiru dalam karangan yer!]


Alhamdulillah..
fuhh~
siap juga akhirnya..
hahahaha [gelak besar mode]
erm, tiada orang yang bertuah inginku tag
selamatlah anda semua.
tetapi jika sesiapa ingin buat, silakan..
maklumkan padaku yer..
wokies..
sekian, wassalam.


♥ Bacalah...




اقْرَأْ بِاسْمِ رَبِّكَ الَّذِي خَلَقَ

Bacalah (wahai Muhammad) dengan nama Tuhanmu yang menciptakan (sekalian makhluk),

خَلَقَ الْإِنسَانَ مِنْ عَلَقٍ

Dia menciptakan manusia dari sebuku darah beku,

اقْرَأْ وَرَبُّكَ الْأَكْرَمُ

Bacalah dan Tuhanmu Yang Maha Pemurah

الَّذِي عَلَّمَ بِالْقَلَمِ

Yang mengajar manusia melalui pena dan tulisan;

عَلَّمَ الْإِنسَانَ مَا لَمْ يَعْلَمْ

Dia mengajarkan manusia apa yang tidak diketahuinya..

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salam..

sesaja nk update...
gambar yang telah ku edit menggunakan www._ _ _ _ _ _.com*
sesapa nk taw, buzz me in ym k...haha
klu nak taw je la...

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p/s : sebarang komen sangat dialu2kan..saya budak baru belajar..

* gambar setelah edit kelihatan sedikit blur sbb telah dikenakan teknik softness.. oleh yang demikian, klik pada gambar utk lebih jelas dan cantik...


♥ bed time story..

salam aleyk~(*)

last night, i stayed up until morning..
guess why?? huhu..
lots of things that i have done..
feel like wanna laugh when i try to remember bout my past..
actually, i'm reading my old diaries..
from 2000-2007 [actually, there are only 3 books of them]
very funny..
biasalah, waktu tu menulis gaya org yg belum matang ler..haha
[bajet skrg dah matang ler tu..haha]
well, i can say that being more mature than before...
studies from experiences..
its quite interesting when i read my diaries..
i just found out that I was a very very busy person before compared to who am i today..
my schedules are full with lots of activities...
sometimes, i miss my busy life...
just like when i was being unemployed after SPM's exam..hakhak~
many things that i have done with my bestfriend, cumi2.. =)
alumni SRAZ things, the LUIS Programme, the courses at Kolej Komuniti, usrah, meetings, Canteen Day and many more...
so much sweet and precious memories there..
i shall never forget that..
ohh.. i really miss that time..huuuuu....
also, last night..
my memory told me who am i in the past..
i did have such many hobbies..
i love to make collection of keychains, cute boxes and souvenirs that i got from my dad or friends...
also love to make paper bags and birthday card...
i remember when i was in secondary school, i love to make paper bags by myself..
so i decorated them nicely..
i remember during my uncle's wedding, i made a cute boxes filled with sweets inside as a gift for the guests..
but now, looks like i'm getting busier and didn't have time for that hobbies anymore..
am i?? huhu...
hurm, actually sangat best when we write diaries..
as years past, and when we read them back...
there, we will know about ourselves during our childhood..
there we can see our personality changes as we getting older...
also about admiring prince charming at bla...bla..bla..
mad on something happened on that day..and so on..
macam-macam...
sangat best dan lucu...! haha
thats all...
just feeling like to share something...huhu
sorry for any mistakes in my grammar..
my english grammar is getting worst day by day..fuhh~
what a shame!
ok lah, still many things to do..
today, i will go to SP with my mom..
so need to cook first and getting prepared...heee =D
daaa~
wassalam..

♥ xde tajuk...

salam aleyk..

izaiyyik? izayyak? pembaca2 blog...[klu ada org baca, klu xde xpyh jawab] hehe..xde keje..
esan sudah mula mengarut..
actually xde topik nk cite..
tataw nk tulis apa...
hurm, come on.. give me some ideas! ohoho...can't think about anything right now..fuh~
ok lah.. nk cite..
sekarang esan berada di Malaysia.. hehe... poyo jer..
Alhamdulillah, tanggal 4 Julai yg lalu bersamaan dengan pukul 2.30 ptg..
on the way ke epot tuh, rasa mcm tgh berlakon dalam cite My Girl jer..
sebbek ada bali drive pecut laju....haha...
sempat sampai ke airport akhirnya...
nak dijadikan citer, waktu check in..
timbang2 beg grouping 4 orang, ana, sumaiyyah, kak nisah dan kak cik zaty..
mcmlah berat sangat beg...sorang 40kg..bajet arr..
arab biasalah... alih2 suruh bayar 1000++ genih... haizzzz....
wat orang naik darah jer...
nasib baik last2 dia xlarat nk gaduh memandangkan begitu ramai giler yang beratur kat blkg..
at last dia lepaskan jgak...hahah =p
ske ati jer nk suruh orang bayar... haizz...
dalam flight..tertido kejap, pastu terkejut ada org panggil "ihsan! ihsan!"
sue punya kejela nih...malu cek, ust yg katanya dari kulim, kedah kejut..
sbb ana nk tukar tempat duduk sebelah sue..hehe
after smooth flight [hantam saja la labu..] transit di Singapore selama 2 jam..
waktu tempatan pada pukul 6 pagi - 8pagi
dari singapore ke penang, bayan lepas..
Alhamdulillah semuanya selamat...
selepas tnggu semua bagasi from kargo dapat, keluar then jumpa family..
hehe....waaahhh!! adikku sudah tinggi...hakhak~
klako tgk... firas...firas...
melangut la aku ckp dgn hang...keke...
balik rumah, mak dah masakkan bihun sup...hikhik...
thats my request... kempunan nak makan...
sedapnyer...huauahua..[yg baca jgn terliur eh..sup tulang tuhh....haha...gulp!]
so, skrang ni agaks boring jugaklah duduk di rumah menjadi suri rumah @ bibik...
rutin harianku seperti selepas SPM dahulu..
basuh kain, sidai kain, lipat kain, masak, basuh pinggan, etc....
xpela..at least dapat tlg mak..
penat keje... plus, low blood pressure... kesian mak..
haikal sepupuku yang comel dah boleh jalan dah pun... cakap sket2 dah pandai..
wahh, bukan main buas lagi....
penat jugak tuh..hehe
but, yang tak tahan tu... sangat2 comel...
gerammmm.... b4 fly dulu kecik je lagi...baby..
balik2 dah besar...cepat sungguh masa berlalu...
ada yang dapat baby baru dan ada juga yang telah kembali ke rahmatullah...
itulah lumrah hidup..
daripada Dia kita datang dan kepada Dia jualah kita kembali...
ajal yang tidak mengenal waktu dan masa...
jua tidak mengenal siapa...
adakah kita sudah bersedia??
tepuk dada, tanyalah iman...

sekian dulu, wassalam~

♥ Palestin : agar hidup lebih bererti..



sekadar perkongsian...
sebuah sajak yang dideklamasikan oleh saudara taqeyyabella
selamat meghayati...


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sedikit update...

Alhamdulillah, syukur dipanjatkan ke hadrat Ilahi..
Akhirnya, selesai juga urusan akad rumah baru...
pada Ahad yang lalu, bersamaan 29.06.2008
pada pukul 6.30 ptg...
ditemani kak una dan kak aimi..
lega rasanya kerana perkara yang paling menyerabutkan kepala dan memenatkan telah pun selesai dengan sempurnanya...Alhamdulillah...
really love that house...really feel like home...
but, we still cannot move in to our new house..
cause it is still under construction..
actually everything has already complete except the mafrusyah (furnitures)..
insyaAllah, by 1st August, the house are ready to be used...huhu
memandangkan tiket fly ke malaysia adalah pada 4 julai 2008,
maka dengan itu, kami perlu memindahkan barang2 kami ke tempat lain dahulu...
destinasi pilihan ------> beit ******
huhu..thanks a lot!
may Allah bless you gals...
kepada sahabat2ku di luar sana yang juga sedang mencari rumah,
semoga urusan kalian dipermudahkan..

setakat ini dulu...
banyak kerja yg perlu dibereskan lagi..
got to go...
thanks for spending ur time reading this blog..
wassalam~